As we look at the process of Spiritual Formation we recognize that it is a process. Whether it is within the context of a local church or a small group, relational development (or relational stagnation) is always taking place. Note the following communal progressions in Spiritual Formation:
- Community. This is the stage whereby we get to know one another through family life, vocation, hobbies, and interests. This is important information as it pertains to relational development, but if our conversations stop here, we may get away with presenting a safe, false front that looks either really good (to gain esteem) or that looks really bad (to gain pity). All of us long to be known for who we really are, to be loved and appreciated even when we fail. We long for someone to believe in us, and to encourage us. These things require authenticity, as well as risk, on someone else’s part, and are not accomplished through superficial conversations. All of us need to be known and loved more completely.
- Spiritual Community. Because we are believers in Christ, we share a common bond of love and mutual interest. We truly desire to live lives worthy of our calling because the Holy Spirit has given us that desire. When we are together, there is a sense of connection as we hear the Word preached, and later, engage in conversations centered on the scriptures; we are led to know what is true, and to understand who God is and what He has done. We are drawn to love the same things. But if our spiritual development is left to intellectual assent alone, it will be easy to enjoy a sermon, class or small group Bible study, and to remain unchanged. We may live in dualism, partaking in spiritual activities, but then going back to the cares of this life. Consequently, the knowledge we have gained does not result in life transformation.
- Soul Care. Soul Care is the means by which our spiritual life becomes integrated with all of life. This is where much of life transformation takes place, because discussion now centers around our engagement of scriptures, in light of our struggles and our victories. Engaging in authentic conversations helps us to understand what is true; who God is, who we are, and how to apply spiritual truth. It is the convergence of knowledge and experience. It is where we have an opportunity to talk about matters of the heart, with just one or two other people, people who can be trusted. But how do we know what questions to ask, how to probe the inner thoughts and motives of another?
All Consuming Fire is designed for this type of interaction. Whether you are engaging in spiritual direction, mentoring, counseling, or just meeting with a friend or spouse, you will find that this material lends itself to the kind of questions that expose inner motivations, questions that challenge the status quo and leave each person closer to God and closer to one another. Order here for individual use.